Do you think buying a house is men's duty?

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  1. khateya

    khateya Well-Known Member

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    #21
    A man need to take more responsible than a girl!
     
    khateya, Jul 18, 2009 IP
  2. reliable56

    reliable56 Well-Known Member

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    #22
    Today's situation is not such that only men should buy a house for the entire family. for a couple, both should equally contribute (if financial situation allows) since it is a costly affair Women r earning too,this should be kept in mind.
     
    reliable56, Jul 18, 2009 IP
  3. hyekyo

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    #23
    Absolutely agree with that. Men and Women have the same responsibility but its the men have the highest responsibility.
     
    hyekyo, Jul 20, 2009 IP
  4. mdvasanth86

    mdvasanth86 Notable Member

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    #24
    hmmm... You are a Asian / Indian ??

    :p...

    Cannot call it as a responsibility as it will be like a burden on men..
    But, why not try buying one.
    After all, its good for you and your family.
     
    mdvasanth86, Jul 20, 2009 IP
  5. mushu

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    #25
    definitely not. If its a couple buying a house then its both responsibility
     
    mushu, Jul 20, 2009 IP
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    #26
    it's not necessarily men's duty to buy a house, it depends how ritch is the woman :D
     
    Dan0392, Jul 20, 2009 IP
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    #27
    There is no such thing as a man's duty or woman's duty. Both are equal...
     
    Codythebest, Jul 20, 2009 IP
  8. Susan Zhang

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    #28
    It is better that a man can buy a house by himself. But if he can't, I think the woman should help him.
     
    Susan Zhang, Jul 20, 2009 IP
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    #29
    If there is a need to buy,men should buy for sure.

    Without any need,no need to buy.
     
    Great Designer, Jul 20, 2009 IP
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    #30
    I am totally agree with you.
    Buying a house is not only men's duty.
     
    TIRTH, Jul 21, 2009 IP
  11. Mike G.

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    #31
    In my opinion buying a house is both responsibility.
    I know many women that have brought house.
     
    Mike G., Jul 21, 2009 IP
  12. Emma1

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    #32
    Yeah right, & that's the reason why you are called "COUPLE" .
    Responsibilities must be taken by both parties & not just an individual ;)
     
    Emma1, Jul 21, 2009 IP
  13. angle1986

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    #33
    Yes I think buying a house is men's duty but women should help to buy the house.
     
    angle1986, Jul 21, 2009 IP
  14. MoneyNowUsa09

    MoneyNowUsa09 Banned

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    #34
    Buying a house specially if you are a couple is not really a man's duty. It will become your conjugal property after all.
     
    MoneyNowUsa09, Jul 21, 2009 IP
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    #35
    I think buying a house is men's duty. but woman can help him to buy it.
     
    grigson, Jul 21, 2009 IP
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    #36
    Absolutely not .............
     
    workathomeshop, Jul 21, 2009 IP
  17. jhmattern

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    #37
    ... or the one who knows what they're doing. My ex and I spent months looking at houses. It was a nightmare. He knew nothing about the housing market. He knew nothing about negotiating. He knew nothing about the technical / mechanical side regarding factoring in maintenance issues. And he was a complete sucker for any real estate agent that gave him a "good feeling." Ironically, he still thought it was up to him and him alone to buy the house, and that I should have no say. (Same guy who once told me when we moved in together I should start giving him all of my income so he could decide how the money is spent and put me on an allowance of some sort. - Didn't know me as well as he thought he did. lol) Got the hell out of that relationship, and none too soon. :D
     
    jhmattern, Jul 21, 2009 IP