How to Pick Up and Attract Girls - Get my advice, add yours...

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by DavidFa1976, Jun 27, 2009.

  1. #1
    Hey guys, what’s up?
    :)

    Allow me to contribute a bit of my knowledge about the subject of meeting and attracting girls to the forum.

    Girls are different from guys. REALLY different; and once you understand the female logic you finally understand why you drove so many girls away from your life in the past… But no more!!! The next girl that you meet will be so turned on by you that…. Well, I’ll leave it to your vivid imagination to complete the rest…

    I’m not going to teach you the female logic here, for this I highly recommend you sign up for David DeAngelo’s free email newsletter that totally changed my life 3 years ago. David DeAngelo is the leading guru in the subject of meeting and attracting women and he will teach you the theory behind all the stuff I’m going to write here.

    Now before I start shooting my tips I’m gonna send you to read some of David DeAngelo’s articles: (I don't care if you read them now or later, but if you want to succeed with women - you WANT to read them. Trust me...)

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    OK, now for some very useful pick up advice from me…

    1. When you take a women’s phone number, don’t just walk away immediately after she gives it to you; spend 5 more minutes with her, make her laugh, make her feel good for giving you the number and by doing this she WILL remember who you are and she will also like you more.
    Then before you leave, look into her eyes, tell her it was a pleasure meeting her, hold her hand and give her a kiss on the cheek, preferably close to her mouth… If you want to go back to your friends don’t act like you’re the man and hi-five everybody; act cool, she (or her friends) can still see you.

    2. Timing: When you offer, “let’s go to... (Wherever)” or “Hey, give me your number and maybe I’ll call you sometime” – make sure you say it right after she laughed or realized that you’re a great guy. Good mood = better odds.

    3. You can find opportunities for bets with the girl you're talking to, and by losing or winning, it doesn’t matter, you get to spend more fun time with her in the future. You can bet with her on a message, dinner or even who will be on top if she’s really into you / she has a healthy sense of humor...

    4. You can credit a girl with points when she deserves them and take them away when she does something you don’t like. It’s like saying “I’m the king here, I decide whether or not you should be rewarded, and you need to behave yourself if you want to win spending more time with me.” Flirting with girls like that is not only fun to her, it’s also very entertaining for you.
    For example: Give her 2 points when she likes a song that you like and take them away if she accidentally kicks you or doesn't laugh from a joke you told her etc. Give her 4 points when she makes you laugh and promise her that at 10 she will get your number… At 20 she can choose between a kiss and a hickey…

    5. If you’re not sure if the girl that you are talking to right now is into you, assume that she definitely IS into you; and by acting more confident because you now know that she wants you, you will project this confidence back to her, and make her more attracted to you. Cool, ha?
    Adopt this mindset to your game, because assuming success DOES make a big difference. (Pro sales people assume success, that’s why they sell MUCH more.)

    I think it's enough for now...

    Please, feel free to add your advice.

    Now if you haven't done it yet and you want to choose your one and only from literally dozens (or hundreds or in some cases even thousands) of girls instead of settling for the first one who AGREES to marry you, then do yourself a favor and read the articles I linked to in the beginning of this post.

    Good luck my friends, and let's see what you've got...

    Dave F.
     
    DavidFa1976, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  2. magda

    magda Notable Member

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    Well, I am a girl and my advice is - ignore all that ^ bollox

    Don't treat women like they're an alien species, be confident but not arrogant, make friends with girls, and don't play silly games and tricks
     
    magda, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  3. lilmissLisa

    lilmissLisa Peon

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    #3
    confidence is a must other than that be yourself
     
    lilmissLisa, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  4. DavidFa1976

    DavidFa1976 Peon

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    It's funny to see how girls hate it when somebody tells their secrets to the opposite sex...

    Magda, did I write anything disrespectful toward women? I took the time to help other guys and gave awesome advice and it's rude of you to just tell everyone to ignore all I wrote.
    What I wrote is based on science: psychology and evolution. What you wrote is based on your opinion, (which was partially true) and anger.

    You wrote "Don't treat women like they're an alien species" - ever read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"? :D Magda, women are very very different from men and most men don't know what is the logic behind the female logic. That's why we're screwing up all the time with you. A man who took the time to understand women's logic is a man you want to meet (unless he's a douchebag, and most of us are not.)
    A man who learned all that stuff (and wants you) will make you thank god every night before you go to sleep, because he knows for example the importance of taking the lead, manners, he will be funnier, he will think twice before opening his mouth, he will understand why you sometimes act strange and how to respond, he will know that women LOVE sex, probably MORE THEN MEN, he will know how to dress better, have more style, he will have more muscles and a good posture, he will know the importance of touch, eye contact, flirting etc. Oh yea, he will be AWESOME IN BED and you will never leave him just because of that...

    Magda, when was the last time you met a real man like that?

    Now for the women who think they can use a better understanding of us neanderthals... this is the free email newsletter for you right here. Both my sisters are enjoying it these days...


    I hope I helped...

    Peace.
     
    DavidFa1976, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  5. Flip-Side Entertainment

    Flip-Side Entertainment Member

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    Well I guess you can go up and talk to them... That is the first step when trying to pick them up. They are people.
     
    Flip-Side Entertainment, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  6. coduk

    coduk Member

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    #6
    From what I read, it seems are waaay to formal/disconnected from women. It's almost robotic to follow a technique.

    I got together with my current girlfriend when we were talking about something immersive, and she said she liked me, i kinda liked her. Meh, it just happened. If things dont 'flow', dont bother.
     
    coduk, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  7. shahab6

    shahab6 Well-Known Member

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    #7
    But then u just end up being friends, and not more.

    Also common interest is very important in meeting a girl.
    The more common interest u have the better the relationship will be.
     
    shahab6, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  8. Going Green

    Going Green Active Member

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    Women will always be a mystery. You'll never fully fgure them out. :)
     
    Going Green, Jun 27, 2009 IP
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    sl1ck731 Active Member

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    #9
    male enhancement pills.
     
    sl1ck731, Jun 27, 2009 IP
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    jhbalaji Well-Known Member

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    Have some iq then her mate...
     
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  11. mdvasanth86

    mdvasanth86 Notable Member

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    Perfect 10. Reps +:)

    Yeah! Thats the WTG!:)

    :mad::mad:
     
    mdvasanth86, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  12. justinlorder

    justinlorder Peon

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    #12
    Good to hear that .
    I don't like the tricks either .
    I treat my girlfriend as my wife. lol
     
    justinlorder, Jun 27, 2009 IP
  13. mdvasanth86

    mdvasanth86 Notable Member

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    #13
    ^^^^^

    Lol... good one.. Rep+ added.
     
    mdvasanth86, Jun 28, 2009 IP
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    Mega B Well-Known Member

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    That made me smile :) i cannot remember anything i said to my wife as its been 27 since we married but it must of worked ;)
     
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    mdvasanth86 Notable Member

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    Hey! Thats rude. She may be fat but you cant call her wide in a public forum. :p:eek:
     
    mdvasanth86, Jun 28, 2009 IP
  16. Rohit patel

    Rohit patel Prominent Member

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    Same here dude! I also treat her as a Wife as she is my first love which I get after 23 years.:D
     
    Rohit patel, Jun 28, 2009 IP
  17. mdvasanth86

    mdvasanth86 Notable Member

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    ^^ Congrats bro..

    :D
     
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  18. Flip-Side Entertainment

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    Haha no u just need some game dude.
     
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  19. ebk

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    I can attract them no problem, every time I go out I have women staring at me, hitting on me, wanting pics taken with me, feeling my arms and shit. I however don't want to 'pick them up' I have no want or need for it.

    Having a nice body, big solid arms, etc definitely helps to 'attract' them, if that's what you are after.
     
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  20. DavidFa1976

    DavidFa1976 Peon

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    Word! :cool:

    Anyone else?
     
    DavidFa1976, Jun 28, 2009 IP