hey im new here, i like this girl... ive known her for almost three years and ive liked her for as long as i can remember... she used to like me aswell... but she says she only sees me as a friend now... she knows that i like becuase i told her... but she said she dont want to go out with me because of exams coming up and she has to focus on them and she told me that about 3 or 4 months ago... now... last friday she told me that she is going out with someone else and she only sees me as a "frend"... and i really really still care alot about her and love her to bits... we used to text eachother almost every night till about 12... last night i texted her again but she said its different now cuz she is with someone and we cant text at night anymore... because she only sees me as a friend... oh and btw... the boy that she is going out with... is one of my mates... and he knew from the start that i liked her... it hurts me so much cuz i still love her... for almost 3 years... i really don't know what i can do... ive tried to stop talking to her so i can try to move on but i couldnt keep it up for 2 days.... i jus had to talk to her again... and it hurts me so much that she likes my friend... what should i do.... thanks....
Hi pretender You made a big mistake because you waited far too long to tell how her how you feel. Now you have missed your chance. You have gone beyond the friendship line with this girl. Once you go beyond the line, things are never the same again. You will have to learn from this experience and move on. I know that is not easy to do. Emotional pain very often cuts deeper than emotional pain. This will hurt for a while but it will hurt even more if you keep trying to pursue her. If I were you I would also ditch this so called mate who she is going out with. Real friends do not do something like this. My advice is to cry, play sad music, talk to people close to you...do what you have to do to release your sad feelings. Once you have done that go and find yourself someone else and you will know now to move more quickly because of this experience.
if you couldn't find in 3 years than you should go to temple and pray like "Hare Rama Hare Rama, Hare Ram Hare Ram....." don't mind. you should leave her for a time. I sure she will come again after some time because she is examining you. you have no need to do anything. you should keep eyes on your career only. don't wast time in these matters.
Dude,if your love for her is a true one,then she is all yours. She can never go. Trust me! May be,God is just taking some tests. But I bet,if you are really serious abt her,you will have her ultimately And your mistake is that,you couldnt reveal it to her in 3 yrs..
Boy, what a topic for the first post in this forum? You should select another girl who would reciprocate your love. Just remember love has to be a two way thing for lasting longer.
i told her after 1 year of knowing her... she said she used to like me aswell but only sees me as a friend... she has let go already... shes going out with my mate... "MATE"....
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If she says that you are a good friend, respect it ! It's not easy to find /good friends/ and most of them will always stay with you I've seen a lot of guys threatening girls like wifes, but why ? Why they can't be good friends instead of talking about love ?
Cry man... Cry like anything.. Cry out.. Share your worries with any of your closed mates. Can't find any? Cry to the mirror. Consider your image as another person and cry out. Shout. Once you get tired of it, hit the bed. You will forget all the past, once you wake up. Kick them out even if either of them tries to contact you. Think about your parents, their dream on you and your future. Work Hard. Work on something that you're interested on. You will be alright very soon. Good luck!!!
Well, if that's the case.. You should learn to forget her. You should be proud & have self confidence on yourself. C'mon mate.. It's not the end of the world! I've had the same situation as you before, but now.. I'm happy with my own life although without her (my X).
Here's something that might help you: overlook her good points and think of only her bad aspects, she will automaticlaly become a turnoff. convert your grief to anger at that girl and take out the frustration on something, like a pillow or something... Then get a better girl whom you like, couples are not made in heaven, you can't find someone who likes you if you don't try to find her..go out, talk with a few girls and if your frequency matches you'll get together pretty well another advice: I don't think a real friend will do something like that. If both of them are the practical jokers type then they MAYBE playing a practical joke on you. I know this sounds weird, but there are all kinds of people in this world
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This isn't about love anymore. This is about revenge. When she starts going on about friendship, and picking your friends over you, its time to lose the nice guy status and become one of those bad guys. Forget texting her, forget ringing her. Its time to show her who the bad a$$ is around these parts! Here's my two point plan to have her swooning over you. 1. Get with her best friend. 2. Get with her second best friend. If you need to expand the plan a bit more, just add more of her friends to the list. Keep going through them until she realises what an idiot she has been. If you exhaust all friends, feel free to swap tactics and start dating her worst enemies. She'll be so mad with jealousy she'll dump your friend and come running straight back into your arms. Feel free to thank me in your own way