Hello! This post might seem funny to some people, but for some who will understand me i would like to thanks in advance. This is what has been bothering me.. Me and my wife Danijela each took a loan at an austrian bank (we are from slovenia), to be able to build us a house. Well we ahve finnished it in y2000. All was going so great. We got our first child Tomaž. Hes is now 8 years old. Both had medium sallary jobs. Each our own car. And then one day in january 2008, i found out that my wife was unable to cover monthly expence of the loan she took. She was successfuly hidding that fact from me until it was to late. We got a notice saying we have to cover the rest of the loan in 8 days. Well i couldnt think of anything else, but to take another loan, to cover hers. But the problem was, that first, i had to cover my 1st loan to be able to take another1. A family member helped me on that1. I covered the 1st1, took a second, and payed of my wifes loan. Seemed like the problems had finally finished. But it wasnt so. Danijela still cant find a new job and I lost mine. So the whole horror-story is happening all over again. Today we got another notice with `in 8 days` order. I have to return the loan somehow or they will take our house. And im terriffied of it. The amount of the loan we owe is 16.000euros. Untill now we have gathered 9.000. 7.000 to go, but just cant get ahold of it. Everyhow i think of it, i just cant find a way to get this off my shoulders. It sucking all of my energy out of me. In tired. So the last thing i can do is to is to begg. Some of you will take this post as a scam. Some russian maffia thingie. It is not. Im simply reaching out to people who were in similar situation once, or who understands me and would like to help. If i find 7000 people who can give me 1 euro, all my (biggest) problems would be solved. And believe me, i wouldnt be doing this if this was not our last option. Al of you who understands and wants to help us, use my MoneyBookers address : ecstatic@email.si And if u wish to contact me for any reason, my email address is : ecstatic84@gmail.com THANK YOU FOR (READING) LISTENING Aleš, Danijela, Tomaž DERNIKER
Its Sad To Hear That But I dont Have Anymoney Now To Help You, Hope You Get Some People Who can Help You
So sell the house and get something cheaper. Hell, I share a house with 5 people whom at the beginning of the year I didn't know. If only I could find 200 000 people to give me one dollar each, I would be able to move out into my own home. "If you don't think every day is a good day, just try missing one."
While you're looking for 7000 idiots to give you 1 Euro, Danijela is sleeping with Tomaž's new non-loser dad.
Well, that might b the case...but i doubt it. Situations like theese brings two persons even closer together. Ur missing our most important bond...which is Tomaž, our son. I am not worried about my wife sleeping with others. I just know thats not happening. +not very kind of u to put that thoughts in my mind at this moment. Its already full with problems. I would like to sell the house, but apartments are very hard to find where i live (slovenia). +they are very expencive. Im trying to get a social partment for about 2 years now. But simply cant. Our region has approx. 150 ppl fired from companys per month. These hard times really made my case even whorse. Im not expecting help for nothing in return. If any1 wants me to, i can translate ENGLISH-SLOVENE, and CROATIAN-ENGLISH. I was doing translations for slovenian online comic sites, like OnlineStrip.si. So im experienced in it. : thank you very much for your word. Ive posted my scream for help on 2 forums now, and all i got was `fuck you you scammer` and `go on the streets and begg`. ...oh and `ur wife is fucking another dude while u begg for money` For all those spoiled little x-box bratz: when ull face the real life as it is, ull c that not all help requests online are scams. But acctuall cyr-outs for help. But i know how it is. If u got what u need, why tha hell should u care about those who havent got what they need. Why pick up a hitch-hikker if u dont hitch-hikke urself cose u have ur own car. Same principal ai?
How do you think we got to those 9.000. Look, u ppl still thinks this is a scam. Ok, i understand. I really do. But please, dont make me repeat myself. This begging stuff i do here is not very honnorable thing to do and im ashamed of it. Cant even think about what i would do if some1 i know reads this and recognizes me. I would be very very ashamed. Untill now i did everything i possibly could to fix this. I cant go to my uncle asking him for money again, cose i know he hasnt got much left after he borrowed me some, to fix the last loan problem. Still owe him half the ammount. So u c, even if i get these 7000, we would still b in a big shit. But we would at least have some basis to start form. And that would mean the world to me and my wife. To eb able to go to sleep not thinking about loosing our home.
ya asking ppl for money can never be the last option...there is always a way out..u hve to find it urself...
No matter how sad your story is, it doesn't change the fact that you're begging for money. Which as far as I know, isn't permitted on DP. Posting on forums asking for money isn't the way to save your home.
Because while millions literally starve to death around the world, god will care more about someone who can't make their mortgage payments.
I’m so sorry to hear that. You’re not alone buddy having the same problem. Actually we’re more responsible ourselves to create such situation. You shouldn’t take that risk depending on your jobs only, when you didn’t have sufficient amount reserved. Anyway begging online will never solve your problem. If it were the solution, everyone like you would do that. Chances are website visitors will start thinking you as a scammer. Try solving this face to face….physically. Ask for help to your relatives, as they will play an important role in this time. Sell your properties like land, gold/diamond jewelries, cars or anything you own from source of inheritance. And yes, this kind of thread is not permitted on DP, or any other forums. Hope your life will be good again. Wish you all the best .
I would say it's just how you see it. Life pretends the way you wanna to see it. then it can be either be good or bad.
All, i can do is pray for you ! Yep, if i knew you personally, i would have surely given you some bucks.