This is because you dont believe in a soul. If you did then you would understand that this isnt a selfish bond , its an unselfish bond. True love is about sticking it out when things arent going good, not exchanging partners when like baseball cards when things go a little bad. We no longer have much of a family unity base when it comes to our country and our society as a whole and it seems to me that is a whole heck of a lot less love out there with young kids growing up then there ever was. the 65% divorce rate numbers are probably even higher if you count people that have been married more then 2 times. Family is one of the purest forms of unselfish love on this earth. Selfish is when you quite the marriage, leave the kids and have and just do whatever gives that person pleasure and joy. Give me an intrinsic love anyday over an extrensic love.
Family is dead. You know how chaotic of an era we're about to enter? Almost every man in this generation has no experience of family, so depressing to go public places now. I take back my previous opinion. I really do hope we get some kind of armageddon. Every day I get a little more pessimistic about this planet, this truly must be the worst time in history to be alive. Hopefully gays, lesbians and abortionists flourish in this century so no one has to inherit what not only society, but government has left for them. You want to know about hell? We're living in hell. Just go to the mall, people are like zombies.. no future, no perspective on life, no honest relationships, no principles, morals, no meaning of what life is, just looking out for their own hide. Run from your problems, do drugs, destroy yourself more; all while we have the stupid celebrity bullsh#t, people acting like they're in some paradise, so too do the sheeple. But they're in hell, they can't see past their own nose. This is the future of America, I saw it yesterday, I'm horrified. No wonder i love old people..
Nate you are so wrong. You really need to change your view of life, you are being too pessimistic. Most people doing seriously negative things are a small minority, and what you do see happening now always have been, it is just being pointed out more often by others. May be you need to chill out some, hang out with friends, do something you enjoy etc to get your mind off such things. I agree with this, I don't think monogamy marriages is natural. Most creatures in nature is polygamous. Monogamy societies is relatively new in human history and majority of the world is polygamous. Polygamous societies also often have much lower divorce rates then monogamy societies. If everyone is an adult and can afford to take care of their spouse(s) and is honest I don't see any problem with that.
Race? I do not give a damn. There are no other races. The Neanderthals died out thousands of years ago. Oh, do you mean Ethnicity? Don't care. Religion? Do care. I will not be marrying a woman who believes in the UFO asteroid, or make believe supreme beings. Agnostic and Atheist are fine by me. Even Buddhist are A-okay in my book. Evangelical Christians? Go away. Stay off my lawn. Politics? Matters way more than Religion. Will not marry a Marxist, socialist, or Democrat to the core. Centrist and libertarian leaning only plskthx. Also, family is dead for most - but not all. I have a family luckily, ranging back to my still-married grandparents on both sides who have been married for 40+ years. They're all in their 80s. I'mma live a long time bar any asteroids or religious nutballs killing me.
So you're into necrophilia? You know, since, all the other "Races" of the genus Homo are... dead. Oh yeah, Neanderthal bones... oh just sit there all sexy like...