14 Years Old Dating 19 Years Old.

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  1. m4s4mun3

    m4s4mun3 Peon

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    #21
    yes ofcourse it's allowed. love is blind as you have ever heard. lol. if 2 people is loving each other, i think that's okay for them to be together.
     
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    #22
    Yes it is C.whyte
    What we have here is a GROWN MAN dating a child that has not even been a teenager for 2 years.
     
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    #23
    Probably not around or ignoring her, which can be part of why a girl would seek attention from a guy much older.
     
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    #24
    Thats probably correct blogmaster. I know 6 girls that date men 15 to 30 years older than them and every single one of these women never had a father figure in their life and they are fast to tell you that.
     
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    #25
    A 5 years gap,
    yes will accept it :p
    but teh 19 yrs old must wait 14 to be on legal age .
     
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    #26
    And some have been abused and feel the need to re-enact.
     
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    #27
    hmmm, it's not wrong. At least where i live, pedophilia is where a kid less than 12yo and adult over 21yo are toghether. In this case, is still kinda wrong but is not that big.
    What gets me worried about this is that she's your ex and now's your best friend? WTF?
    What i need to tell you, being brutally honest, is that the guy only wants to get laid with her, she will believe all the crap he will tell her, and he will end up dumping her. You probabily know that, but you should know that you should let her suffer it, that makes stupid girls to become great womens.
    And whatever happens, don't try to be back with her once the guy dumps her, leave her alone.....
    I tell you that because i have been in the same situation as you (i was still interested in her, i don't know about you), and she always screwed it up like i mentioned before, and she became my best friend since i was there in those "hard times" but then she did it again (and again, and again) and she treated me like sh*t because i used to talk sh*t about the guys (even though i ended up being right).
    Finally, i left her alone, she did it again, but i wasn't there for her no more, and she suddenly became mature, respectful and apologized to me for like, 3 hours for everything she did. So, be smart, let her smack her head against the wall...
     
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  8. sterday

    sterday Active Member

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    #28
    These are the things happening now a days, you are saying 14 years old but even worst things are happening in india now a days. In the school days itself. Disgusting only but the parents should take the action about that.
     
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  10. sterday

    sterday Active Member

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    #30
    yes you are right, they have some maturity but still need age to do all the stuffs right. I think 18 is the right age to go for all these things. We can say after 18. It's my personal opinion. :)

    Thanks
    Raj
     
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  11. musichangout.com

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    #31
    I think its fair for dating

    there is only just 5 years gap between them .
     
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    #32
    So is between the ages of 10 and 15. It´s not about the gap, it´s about the age group.
     
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    #33
    Its not illegal for them to date but it is illegal for them to have sex
    However it does happen and I just watched a movie "Notes on a scandal" starring Judy Dench and Kate Blanchett on exactly this. In the movie it was a 15 year old boy and a teacher of around 40
    When I was 15 I always wanted to have my teacher she was a dish.
    5 years is not abig age differnce normaly but it is from 15 to 19 the gap is huge
    if they stay together when they are 40 and 45 its no big deal
     
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  14. hmansfield

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    #34
    Hee Hee. You said Penal.:p

    Any guy that doesn't know that dating a 14 year old is ridiculous has something wrong with him.
    When I was 19, I was trying to date 30 year olds.

    Maybe he is just emotionally immature. I'll tell you what , if they ever break up, boys her age will call her a skank and ignore her, and girls his age won't touch him with a 10 foot pole.

    If I was the girls father, I would kick his ass though.
     
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    #35
    I agree. And it is drawn somewhere. Just not always in the same place by different countries. In the UK, the age of consent is 16. In France, the nearest "foreign country", it's 15. 16 is right for the UK and is what British people are used to and think of as normal. 15 is right for France and is what French people are used to and think of as normal.

    I see from your post that you think 18 is "right". There are very few countries where that's the law. But you're just as entitled to your attitude and belief as anyone else is, and I respect that. But that doesn't make you right and every other country wrong. This is all I'm saying.
     
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  16. peter_anderson

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    #36
    I would say that is wrong. A 20 and 25 year old is OK, but not a 14 and 19.
     
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    #37
    I was not projecting my values.

    I was stating the facts as they are in the US. Several states have set the age of consent at 14 as long as both are under 18. Some enforce a 2 year differential rule between the two parties.
     
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  18. fireservice

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    #38
    I think nothing special in this relation.

    they have only 5 year age difference. (3-5 year is normal in india.)
     
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  19. Coopzie

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    #39
    yeah but remember some are more mature, than others, as long as they dont have sex then its ok
     
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    #40
    in Uk ur a pedo if someone of legal age had sex with illegal age,

    so u wud prolly be classed if one was 16 and the other was 15
     
    Coopzie, Jan 18, 2009 IP