14 Years Old Dating 19 Years Old.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by levampire, Jan 17, 2009.

  1. #1
    Can a 14 years old girl date a 19 years old guy !?

    Well, My Ex-Girlfriend, and current best friend is dating a 19 years old guy, and I'm just not feeling well about it.

    What do you think guys and gals !?
     
    levampire, Jan 17, 2009 IP
  2. sawz

    sawz Prominent Member

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    #2
    in some parts of the world, its acceptable. disgusting but legal.
     
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    scubita Peon

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    #3
    Yes.
    Get over it.
    I think its weird and in my country it's called pedophilia.
     
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  4. Colbyt

    Colbyt Notable Member

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    Sure it is fine if the guy wants to spend time with Bubba in the penal system.
     
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  5. awcguy

    awcguy Active Member

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    #5
    Does the Guy know she is 14?

    Lets not pre-judge here.. Girls are looking older now days..

    Lets spin this.. Would you at 14 date a 19 year old girl?
     
    awcguy, Jan 17, 2009 IP
  6. alexa_s

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    #6
    What are you talking about? In many countries the age of consent is 14. Maybe you think that's too low, but don't project your own morality onto the rest of the world.
     
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  7. scubita

    scubita Peon

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    #7
    Just because its legal in Mongolia to kill people cause they smell, we should say its alright? :rolleyes:
     
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    ForgottenCreature Notable Member

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    #8
    It's illegal depending on where you live. It's a 3 year different before the person is a sex offender.
     
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  9. torrentstorage

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    #9
    People like this in my country get tossed in prison then tossed in Protective custody so they don't get their face bashed then fuc$ed
     
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  10. jezzz

    jezzz Notable Member

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    #10
    Surely she has all right to date everyone! except someone who may be younger than her
     
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    Just ask her to be careful. where are u from?
     
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  12. alexa_s

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    #12
    Not at all. But we should acknowledge over a societal issue like the age of consent that different countries have different laws, practices and customs, that many millions of people think of them as normal, and that there isn't an automatic assumption that what we're used to ourselves as the norm is "right" and everyone else is automatically "wrong".
     
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  13. xSubZer0x

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    #13
    It's only allowed if there parents allow it but if they don't i hope he has a fun time with bubba and hopefully he don't drop the soap :p
     
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  14. profitdollar

    profitdollar Active Member

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    #14
    It is almost 5 years different.. erm... I think it should not be any problem.. However, that girl should focus on her study first...
     
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    manlyseo Banned

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    #15
    The gals is not matured yet! It takes 4-5 years more for her to get some maturity. So i think she have to wait till that
     
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  16. Blogmaster

    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    #16
    You´re joking, right? So if you have sex with a minor in some other country it makes it alright, just because the laws are different? Just because in some countries the government hands out heroin to addicts, makes it ok do shoot up?
    Don´t get me wrong, because this is obviously not as bad as someone being with a girl like let´s say under 10, but still, the dude should find a girl his own age. Every child has a right to have a childhood. Once 18 you´re on your own.
    I live in Costa Rica, and trust me, there are many who come here because they get away with having sex with minors here.
    I´m not exactly sure if indeed girls that age *like* having a boyfriend that age, but regardless, this is about protecting kids and enabling them to have a good upbringing without some older dude taking advantage of them.
    And yeah, you need to get over your ex. But still you´ve brought up an important issue.
    I´m not saying that if a 17 year old girl has a 19 yr old bf, it´s necessarily bad, but legally speaking the line needs to be drawn somewhere.
     
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  17. TriNi27

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    #17
    well i dated a guy 4 years older than me when i was 13.

    We lasted around 3 years..

    I didn't turn out so bad. Everyone has "learning experiences" in their life. As long as the 19 year old isn't pressuring her to be with him, like tying her down in his apartment or something, I guess there isn't much you can do about it.

    The truth is, even if you told her she couldn't be with him, she'd find a way to anyway... so let her make her mistakes and learn her lessons.. and who knows maybe it wont be a mistake and they might actually make it. ?
     
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    #18
    Yes, however I will never accept it .. The same as if I would go to the party with my grandmother !
    If you can't find a normal gf - better stay at home and surf the net :D
     
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    #19
    Trini27
    The age difference is COMPLETELY wrong and immoral. It would be different. if the age was 21 and 27.
    What is a 13 year old doing dating anyway? Where are her parents ? This would never happen at my house.

    Next thing you know this 19 year old will be baby sitting little girls and its obvious where that will go from here.
     
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    euw.... that's disgusting to hear about. Gross. :/
     
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