Your site is fine. Feel free to submit it to all directories you can find. Just don't use "Naughty Web Girls" as an anchor text Most directory owners won't visit your site so if you have a nice Title & Description - you're in!
Good thing I am not targeting you as my demographic, and I really don't think "kiddy" is appropriate either. As far as hosting my own content, I don't think it's necessary, and sites like Heavy, FHM, and Spike that cater to men don't do it either, and I'll bet a few of you would love to have them advertise on your front page. Interesting that some of you consider it adult, just because it has videos of clothed women dancing, and others don't. I guess it comes down to personal preference and what kind of links you want to provide for your readers, after all directories are privately owned and not all created equal. So far, out of maybe 150 or so submissions, only 10 have said no using a combination of anchor texts. I appreciate the opinions thus far, and will take a few of you up on your invitations, thank you.
I dont class it as strictly adult, its just that i kind of aim for family friendlyish, i will list lingerie sites but il check to see if they discretely sell sex toys or link to them. Not referring to those vids, but another reason for being selective is down to paypal restrictions too. Theres a lot of jumping through hoops as a webmaster, with the search engines, payment processors, forums rules.... If i could setup a login only area to list all the filth i would but theres no real point as its quicker to search in google, knock one out then go downstairs for a cuppa. Directory owners have a hard time as it is, and thats if your pretty strict about what you list too. You should have no real problem getting that listing though in most free directories, especially most of the brand new ones.