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First date ideas, advice, suggestions... please

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by DFence, Jun 18, 2006.

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    I'm so excited to have a date with this girl who I know for many years but haven't had a chance to see each other. Since we have been known each other so long so the conversation on the phone is like really close friend :D Yet her birthday is coming soon and I'd like to ask her out on her bday. I really need your advice. Please advice me as much as possible: what to wear and what to bring her?
     
    DFence, Jun 18, 2006 IP
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    If you've known her for so long, you should know what she's into and what she likes. Make sure she has fun on the date. She will want to hang out again and from there more can develop.


    Sincerely,

    Dr Drew
    Loveline
     
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  3. DFence

    DFence Peon

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    Well, I have talked to her but not really into her personalities :D We were like just a normal friends but recently I talk to her much and somehow we have same feeling and thoughts :D

    I'm thinking to buy her a bday present
     
    DFence, Jun 18, 2006 IP
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    Fart at least once sometime after dinner, but be boastful and proud about it.. Chicks dig a guy who can rip ass with confidence, practice a little in the restroom to get an idea of the aroma and sound.. your looking for the baby elephant type (it may be too early for a wet one) also if it smells way too bad save if for the ride home, in the car... (windows down)
     
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    Ages of you/her would be helpful.

    If logistically possible, I'd suggest making her dinner for her birthday, complete with a desert.

    Find out her favorite actor or genre of movies - buy her one for a gift, present it to her at dinner, and if all goes well, you can enjoy it together after dinner while snacking on desert.

    Don't rehearse the conversation points, but definitely have some topics preset for discussion during dinner so not to have any uncomfortable silences. Avoid "heavy" discussions like politics unless she brings it up. Don't go into "geek" conversations about DP either ;)
     
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    Tyler Banfield Well-Known Member

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    Be yourself, try to be confident and not nervous, and just enjoy yourself. Dating is supposed to be fun, so make sure it is that way.
     
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    Good idea but I really don't know what movie she likes lol Watching movie at threater would be a bad idea eh :D
     
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    Tyler Banfield Well-Known Member

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    As wrmineo asked, what are the ages of her and yourself?
     
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    DFence Peon

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    We're the same age mid 20's :)

    The odd thing that she never wear denim and I seldom wear pants
     
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    #10
    birthday suit usually works.
     
    klingerrr, Jun 18, 2006 IP
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    Tyler Banfield Well-Known Member

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    Why is that?
     
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    because we cannot talk in the threater :D
     
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    That's a good idea, but don't spend too much money on it ;)
     
    Tyler Banfield, Jun 18, 2006 IP
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    Tyler Banfield Well-Known Member

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    But it does give you a good excuse to whisper in her ear and touch her arm throughout the movie, which can definetly cause a few sparks to fly
     
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    still scratching my head :D :D how about buy her a 3carat diamon? 'a fake one' lmao
     
    DFence, Jun 18, 2006 IP
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    lol if I do that then there will be no 2nd date :D no no I'll ask if I come to her house so we can sit down and watch movie to-get-her
     
    DFence, Jun 18, 2006 IP
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    Tyler Banfield Well-Known Member

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    Well, best of luck to you, feel free to let us know how it goes
     
    Tyler Banfield, Jun 18, 2006 IP
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    do you have a "paint your own pottery" place? its always fun to see how creative someone is, might give you a little insight :) watch what she looks at alot and what she doesn't pick out to make, you get it and paint it for her birthday present ?
     
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    just be yourself. if she likes you for being you... that's great! if she doesn't, then she's not the girl for you.. :D just have fun. enjoy your date and don't be too nervous. when you're having fun, chances are, your date's going to have fun too. :) good luck!
     
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    Thanks everyone for giving me confidence. The date went so smoothly. I've brought her to some places that me myself haven't had a chance to visit :D Awww she's so gorgeous, sweet, and pretty too. She looks more prettier in the real life than a pix lol. I guess she eager to see me for a long long time but I didn't give her a chance 'til todate :eek:
     
    DFence, Jun 20, 2006 IP