Okay, so I am 14 years old. In my school bus and school I had a pretty reputation. So, now, one of my friends (older than me) started saying shit about this good friend of mine (girl). Saying stuff like her body and boobs are tight and all f*ckin shit like that. Now, I really couldn't keep it in myself, so I told her. She went to the principal, and the guy proved it wrong. Now, my reputation is really low in the bus and school. And this guy, is VERY VERY popular too- so he's spreading rumours about me. Also, now the girl and the guy are talking with each other and the girl is simply ignoring me and started liking him. (I was earlier getting vibes that she liked me however) I don't know what to do, school has become a living hell with all the rumours flying about. PS: I like this girl A LOT. From my heart. And now she's going to go out with this guy who was saying BS about her and body. This has also started to affect my school work etc.... I just can't get my mind of her. I truly LOVE her..... F*ck him. Just wanted to share, how when you try to do the right things, everything turns out to be wrong.... Phultu....
"when you try to do the right things, everything turns out to be wrong" if you are only 14 and you realized that then I want to tell you that you are a lot older in thinking - congrats I'm much older and I realized that only this year my advice: take all things one at a time.... no matter how much you strive life will hit you inevitably - good or bad
Thanks... well, I just wanted to help, but I f*cked up by telling her what he said.... And now I think she's reallly really going out with him, and just seeing them together makes me angry.
Well... this is the life of a teenager... do not worry... everyone passed though this at one time... you are young and life is ahead - good luck!
You start going out with some other girl if you thing that realy likes you then she will also feel jealous and definately she will talk to you after that. Try going out with her best friend that will added advantage. Take care and best of luck
If she's really worth it then do something about it. Keep in touch with her, communication is your only way of getting her from that prick.
She means a lot to me. And she's worth it. I really want to talk to her, but she's ignoring me I think. If we're passing by, I say hey, she just doesnt say anything. However, today in the bus this guy kept on going around the school bus saying who would you go out with and he stopped on me for like 2-3 mins, and when he said, go out with him (me), he's sexy, she had a loving? smile on her face, but didn't talk to me at all. I really want to talk to her... Dont know how to start. Messaged her on FB too, asking her why exactly shes pissed? with me... F*ck that guy! B*tch.
this is why I never talked much in school... just one thing, if anyone touches you, break them (I'm promoting self-defense here ^_^)
Don't let yourself uber down or you're gonna turn into those ill-fated, eye liner wearing EMOs. Don't let that prick do things like that to you, stand your ground and show her that you can be a better man than that prick.
Hmmm, I guess slowly I'll try to sit nearer to her in the bus. If I'm at the back of the bus, he won't come any near. But, she sits at the front.. I'll just wait outside the bus, and slowly see where she keeps her bag, and will manage to get slightly nearer? REALLY want to talk to her, about anything really.
God, if all I had to worry about was these types of issues, life would be grand My best advice to you: First of all, can you take him one-on-one? Because if it comes down to fighting (and it usually does), make sure you'll win - because the last thing you want to do is look like a pansy in front of the girl. Move in and just start talking to her, dude! Who cares about anyone else? Unless she specifically tells you "NO", then go and make conversation with her. If the other guy doesn't like it - then stand up, whip his ass, and then sit back down like nothing happened. Seriously though, just go talk to her...unless you're not telling us the whole story and you're really a stalker - she's probably waiting for you to make a move. Better hurry, or you might regret it for the rest of your life. PS: Don't use the "I love you" stuff. You're 14. You don't actually love her (trust me) - you care a great deal about her and like her, but it's not love. Plus, saying "I love you" sounds more creepy at this point anyway. You need to play it cool, and go in with some confidence, man. No one feels sorry for you here or there. YOU ARE THE MAN, NOW ACT LIKE ONE, AND YOU'LL BE FEELING HER UP BY TOMORROW NIGHT!
You can find the right girl for you when you reach the right time and place. So don't you worry boy!!! Live your life... Don't let someone stop it co'z life is full of mysteries that you have to uncover at your young age you have a whole things to discover. Discover them well and be patient about it. You can use your up's and down's to make you a better man... Use them wisely)
Well it wont harm you if you're going to try aye? and obviously, you'll never know what she really feels about you unless you start talking to her. Just do it kid, just like the Nike logo.
She's replied on facebook too. Supposedly, she thought I was pissed with her, so she stopped talking to me ... Weird huh? We talked it out together and it was misunderstanding. However, that guy is now having playful fun with her, and everyone knows (the guys) in the bus that he only goes near her so he can check her out and then at home fantasize about her. Fuck him, I repeat.