I need relationshit advice ... again!

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  1. #1
    If you really care about a girl, and she likes you, but you want to really build a long term relationship with her and really don't know how to, what is the best advice you have to get and keep things going.

    I screwed up every relationship I ever had in some ways. Even my marriage.

    This is serious. I have no problem getting laid, but I really like this girl and I'm scared to even get further with her knowing how it feels when a good thing ends.


    Mike
     
    Blogmaster, Sep 14, 2007 IP
  2. soniqhost.com

    soniqhost.com Notable Member

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    All I have to say is listen to your partner and communicate it helps keep the relationship going. I would also think back on what you done wrong previously which lead to the failures of your past relationship and tried to avoid those mistakes.
     
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  3. sideways

    sideways Peon

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    Mike... if its a new relationship... what ever you do - don't tell her you love her. You got a wait a couple months for that you know?

    The best advice I have for a new relationship is make her chase you a bit, don't always be available for every phone call, or every date. Girls love a little bit of a chase.
     
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    linkmistress Peon

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    #4
    You have to put those feelings behind you and move forward, trust in yourself.
    Only you can decide how far you want to go with this girl.
     
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  5. Blogmaster

    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    That's always been my mistake, wearing my feelings on my sleeve. Thanks!
     
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  6. sideways

    sideways Peon

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    Here kitty kitty kitty.......

    meow.
     
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    linkmistress Peon

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    Yep, bit like that myself!!
     
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  8. Blogmaster

    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    I'm about to go out with her again and nervous as hell. :D
     
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    britishguy Prominent Member

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    Let her have complete freedom and then buy her 506 properties and she will stay with you for ever ;)
     
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    i would jus say one thing, do not expect much, you can hope as much as you want.

    if you think a lot and get the least it hurts. also be clean and clear with watever you do, jus let it go slow and keep giving hints for how much you care.
     
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    richkid Well-Known Member

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    one thing I would say.. from personal experience.
    always put her needs if front of yours, as soon as you start thinking its about you, its pretty much over. You need to show her she is important.
     
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    KingofKings Banned

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    The more you show her that you love her, the more you will lose.
     
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    Take her to Vegas for the weekend and get married.
     
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    #14
    Find out if she has a website and exchange links, hehe.

    Nah seriously just be calm and communicate alot and make sure the relationship has a spark like you both need to be happy and express whatever is on your mind and for her to do the same and both be open about things and you'll find you will go along way.

    Getting laid is easy but keeping a relationship going is a specialty in itself.
     
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    & don't forget to give her something to drink before :p
     
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    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    k will try not to. I think I already told her I loved her or something like that.
     
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    Mike, I would say listen to your heart. Just show her every time that she is important for you. Make yourself to be important for her as well. Go ahead and tell her everything if you feel that she also feels the same for you. So buddy wish you all the best in your love life:)
     
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  20. nervo

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    #20
    No advice from me, sorry.. but the typo in your title hilariously stressed out your ability of ruining your relationships :D
     
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