To all the girls on DP

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Scriptona, Aug 17, 2007.

  1. #1
    Heard that girls need to marry someone who makes them feel safe and secure

    What does the word "safe and secure" mean for you as a girl?

    Does it mean a commitment like marriage or what ?

    Do you feel insecure without a guy in your life ?

    I think there is someone here that needs to be educated about such stuff :rolleyes:
     
    Scriptona, Aug 17, 2007 IP
  2. samantha pia

    samantha pia Prominent Member

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    #2
    i'm lesbian, so no comment
     
    samantha pia, Aug 17, 2007 IP
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    pctec Well-Known Member

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    #3
    You just made a comment...
     
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  4. samantha pia

    samantha pia Prominent Member

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    #4
    you're fast ;)
     
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    dimeadozen Guest

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    #5
    Feeling safe and secure has nothing to do with a guy in your life it is to do with your own feelings and intuition.

    Why do guys need to be the ones who are to make us feel safe and secure?

    If you are happy with your life and confident, then you will feel secure. However safe is a whole other topic in general I think, there is many ways to see that..
     
    dimeadozen, Aug 17, 2007 IP
  6. butchik

    butchik Banned

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    For me, safe and secure means that you are responsible raising a family as a husband and as a father, that involves financial, mental, psychological and all those ...al stuffs... :D
     
    butchik, Aug 17, 2007 IP
  7. selltrib

    selltrib Peon

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    Safe and secure, to me is that I'm secure and safe with how my life is turning out and that I'm now content with the things and people in my life and can settle down. step out of that single's rat race.
     
    selltrib, Aug 17, 2007 IP
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    FOX LORE Notable Member

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    Safe and secure means to me as having - Humm, I will let you know when I have achieve it?
     
    FOX LORE, Aug 17, 2007 IP
  9. BlackHatSystem

    BlackHatSystem Active Member

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    Something is just wrong with your post dimeadozen, Tech Entrance said "Heard that girls need to marry someone who makes them feel safe and secure". So obviously, he was talking about a woman marrying a guy :rolleyes:

    Just my 2 cents.
     
    BlackHatSystem, Aug 17, 2007 IP
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    FEELING SAFE AND SECURE DOESN,T COME INTO IT.i WAS LOOKING FOR A PARTNER..A SOUL MATE SOMEONE WHO WOULD BE WITH ME FOREVER..AND AM LUCKY TO STILL HAVE AFTER MANY YEARS AND HOPE TO HAVE MANY MORE.
     
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    AutumnBreeze Peon

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    You must have heard that from a bloke :p
     
    AutumnBreeze, Aug 17, 2007 IP
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    ourktm Active Member

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    I am a guy and I believe that some girls are like that. They need a man with whom they feel safe and secure.
     
    ourktm, Aug 18, 2007 IP
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    bloggingseo Active Member

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    Well if you're going to have a man, a partner, he should make you feel safe and secure just by being there because he is loving, caring, and will spend his life with you as your lover and your best friend. This is what safe and secure means in my opinion.
     
    bloggingseo, Aug 18, 2007 IP
  14. Scriptona

    Scriptona Notable Member

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    That looks good so far but does it mean by any way that making them physically secure ? (ie athletic guy or something ? ) or it's just a feeling nothing more
     
    Scriptona, Aug 20, 2007 IP