I am feelig broken and helpless.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by aditya_sfs, May 23, 2007.

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    hello friends.

    its time for god to show his miraculous powers. i started a thread earlier about the sickness of my father. he was taken to christian medical college in south india and treated there of kidney failure. the doctors there fixed the problems and told him to continue some medicines for next six months. we were all happy and returned to our home town near patna in north bihar. after a few days, my father started getting little fever about 101 degF. we called vellore and they told to consult a local physician. the local physician saw him and advices some medicines. but the fever uncontrolled raised to 105 degF. and went uncontrolled. finally it was controllled by giving some strong pain killers which are harmful for kidneys. his skin went red and further black and started wearing out. further the doctor changes medicines few times calling the problem a minor infection and running some antibiotics. but there was no significant improvement in the condition. slowly he lost his senses and started behaving like confused, lost speech and started shivvering hard (shaking chills) and became so weak that started passing tar like stools and urine on bed.

    he was carried to a good hospital in patna here and admitted to a ward and further shifted to ICCU (Intensive Critical Care Unit). he was diagnosed by physicians to be suffering from septicimia (bacteremia , sepsis or blood poisoning). along with melena (hematocezia) along with acute kidney damage. all the three deadly conditions. his body is heavily infected.

    doctors say that there are less chances of survival though they are trying to control the conditions. but he has developed many complications now and struggling with pain in the hospital. i havent slept for days. i just watch him from glass windows in pain (people are not allowed there). His ear, nose, mouth , teeth, stools, urine and various places of body are bleeding. His body is twisted and completely dehydrated. anyone on this earth will cry out after looking at his body. He is crying in pain .i have a brother 12 years old and a mother. i cannot cry there as i am there to encourage them so that they dont break crying. but things are going out of control. i am feeling totally broken from inside. when i see him in pain , i want to do something but feel helpless. i cried a lot when i was alone in temple. cant tell anyone how much trauma i am suffering.

    please ask god to do some miracle and take this pain away from him. take my life away instead.
     
    aditya_sfs, May 23, 2007 IP
  2. qwestcommunications

    qwestcommunications Notable Member

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    #2
    Hope your father gets well soon.
     
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    SumitBahl Reign of Chaos

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    #3
    Thats really very sad.
    I hope and pray that your father recovers.
    My wishes are with you Aditya.
     
    SumitBahl, May 23, 2007 IP
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    aditya_sfs Peon

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    coolweb Notable Member

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    #5
    Really sorry to hear about your father's illness, wish he will be recovered soon, my all prayers are with you and for your family.

    Hope your father will get well soon, you please don't loose patience, keep praying and struggling hard for his better health.
     
    coolweb, May 23, 2007 IP
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    God has strange ways and hope he does a miricle for your dad too..

    All my wishes for him
     
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    all my prayers for him to get well soon.
     
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    #8
    Feeling sorry aditya. My throat is getting hard and eye are going wet. I can imagine all situation.

    God it great...pray he'll do bless you and get uncle well soon.

    Please don't feel shy to tell us what we can do.
     
    Mr_Kumar, May 23, 2007 IP
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    anurag_online Well-Known Member

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    Adi take care of your dad... we all are with you. Please do take care. God will help him survive. GOD BLESS HIM.
     
    anurag_online, May 23, 2007 IP
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    I'ts so sad to hear about your father. Extreme care should be taken after a surgery, especially in cases related to kidneys and prostate and other urinary tract problems. My father also went through something similar like this in the last few months. We successfully had his prostate operated and removed, but he developed some severe infection inside. But thank God we took him to the hospital in time, before condition worsened. He is completely fine and recovered now, after staying at ICU for a couple of days. I feel for you and can completely understand what you are going through. Take good care of your dad and I pray that he recovers soon.
     
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    Good Luck
    Hope things will be bether
     
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    #12
    sad to hear that, hope he get well soon!
    why don't you talk to CMC vellore, they will help you, i have visited vellore about 3 months back! my mom is a heart patient,
    we usually consult the local doctors, but then, when things get complicated, we straight away go to vellore,

    i would suggest you to send an email to vellore and see what they say, just tell them what meditines are being given, scan and fax the doctors reports!

    we usually do this time to time, they will suggest you better meditions, they have done this for my mom, and it worked, am sure they can help you:)
     
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    Our prayers are with you and your family.
     
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    Aditya,

    I am so sorry to hear about your father.. being a paramedal pro I can understand what your father is going through. Septicimia is a serious condition, but it does't mean that it cannot be recovered. These are the moments where you really need to grow stronger and take refuge in Almighty.
    I will pray for your father. I pray to God that he deliver you strength and courage to survive these hard times.

    with prayers,

    Jinson Abraham
     
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    My prayers go out to your father and your family.
     
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    Am really sorry about your father, we all pray for your father and your family. i hope that everything will be ok.
     
    funkymario, May 23, 2007 IP
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    Really a sad news,lets hope for his speedy recovery.
     
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    Really sad. I hope he gets well soon. Never lose the hope.
     
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    I am so sorry to here that. I will keep your father and your family in my prayers if u ever need to talk i am here and a good listener.

    Brandy
     
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    #20
    My heart and prayers goes out for you aditya_sfs. Your post brought tears to my eyes. I lost both of my parents a few years back and find life without my family difficult to say the least. Miracles do happen. So hang in there. Pull your family ( and friends ) close and never let go.
     
    livingearth, May 23, 2007 IP