I had a Fight... MY LIFE SUCKS NOW

on 31st January 2010, At 8.30 PM I had a road fight which was an incident of a bike and car .. I was on my bike waiting for signal, a car front of me took reverse and pushed me so hard that I got angry and kicked on his car bumper, He then came out of the car to see what hit the bumper... I then slapped him once on his face and said what are u doing.. and all

After 5 minutes of argument he told his name .. I too told my name and he asked where you stay.. I just told him my area name and building number.. He then knew it , coz he is also staying in the same area which I didn't know

@ 9.30 PM when I reached my building and parked my bike, He was with 3-4 guys and came to me... I took them behind the building and spoke to them about the incident. He then grabbed a stick from a friend and shot me once on my arms very badly.. and slapped me on my face so hard that I was blank for 2 seconds. Then I started running out of the building and I could not run properly As I'm Overweight ( 85 kilogram's- Height 6 - Shoulder Size XXL) after running few distance I fell down and then I told them I'm feeling unconscious .. He started insulting me near vegetable vendors.. These Vegetable vendors know me well from 25 years. He was giving me bad words also .But I just listening what he was saying to me.. Later they all left me alone, when I told them I will commit suicide. Then One person came and left me home.

What had happened to me that time.. Why I couldn't hit them back.. They were just a kid with age of 18years and I'm 25 Years.. My life sucks .. Daily I get those dream When I sleep.

What will people think of me now what will vegetable vendors think of me that Im a looser ?

Help me .. this world is not good.. I feel to submit my life to hell .. Im from INDIA

 

We all can have bad days and it seems that you have had one of those. Why would you be ashamed to be beaten by three or four people? If he were alone I bet things would be different, but he's the one to be ashamed for bringing his friends to deal with one person. What a schmuck! I wouldn't be ashamed if a lose a fight against three or four people. Be strong and get over it. It's already a past.

 

yes I understand.. But mine was very bad

Any one in my place would have taken revenge or would become terrorist and murder him...


I want revenge..

 

Hey dude, don't worry be cool. The one who is always happy in the bad times and the good times, one who does not fear for good or bad people, one who never cries for loss or profits is the one who is liked by all. Be brave. Read biographies of Swamy vivekananda and other greats.

Btw, its your life, live it your way. Why you care about others feelings?

 

Its your goodness that you didn't hit them back.
If I were you, all of them would have to admitted to hospital.

Take a leave for a week and go to some place to relax.

 

I second digitech! Take a break and go out of your place for sometime.

Revenge sounds nice in movies not in real life friend... after all, you had been nice to a rude rascal you should be feeling happy you were tolerant!

You got to move on buddy!

 

Wow, Mr.Bruce Lee.

 

Cant go to other place bro.. My home is only one place

From now on im doing boxing practice

My friends say that ..you should have hit them..but I was thinking that if I raise hands then instead of one who hit me..all four would have hit me.... and then bigger issue.... next time if like this happens I will move my hands and start hitting

my life is Down..

Why on earth was I born... damn it ...

 

I didn't knew one needs to think before he hits

 

My Mind wasn't working

 

.. the time when you can do the most

 

Hello Bros

I suggest you go tomorrow to the vegetable vendors and buy 5 carrots. They will all forget...

Good Luck Bros

 

If that happened to me. I hire some thugs. and it would be his last day live around my town. I have enough people for that kind of shits..

 

I understand But I want to hit him.. I dont want others too... The Slap he gave me was hard...

After I finish hitting him.. Ill do police complaint saying that he had hit me

 

Sounds like you hit him first in the face when he got out of his car? If so... well we reap what we sew. Sucks that he confronted you with 3 other guys. Why did you tell him where you live?

I hope it all plays out more gently next time. No fun being in situations like that... especially when you all live around each other.

 

I gave him my address was I think my anger or a slip of tongue

 

these things are very common where I live......I think you feared because they were 4-5 people and you were alone.......if you want to take revenge , first find his house and then ask your friends

 

These thins are happening every day somewhere around us. But we should be patient always. Polite & Patience always saves us.

 

I have his Car number plate.. I have his building Address where he stays

He stays in my area just 300 meters ahead

 

Yes Agreed.. thats why I am waiting for him to come in my area...he usually comes... When he comes Ill hit him hard...and ill do police report