arrange marriage or love??

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by acidburns, Sep 16, 2009.

  1. #1
    what do you think which marriages are more successful and why??:confused:
     
    acidburns, Sep 16, 2009 IP
  2. 321nixin123

    321nixin123 Peon

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    I'd say love marriage, but I am biased :). I have many friends that have done arranged and are doing great, though. I really think that a lot of it depends on the attitude and the willingness of each partner to make the other one as happy as they can.
     
    321nixin123, Sep 16, 2009 IP
  3. TIRTH

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    #3
    You can't predect on it,
    It is just depends on life partner.
    I have seen lot of divorce couple who get love marriage and also seen arrange marriaged couple.
     
    TIRTH, Sep 16, 2009 IP
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    #4
    As an old adage goes, follow your heart. Love feeds a relationship harmoniously. Arranged marriage is a forced one. You can never fake your feelings.
     
    mrandrei, Sep 16, 2009 IP
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    real_skinner Notable Member

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    Well, If I am arrange with rich, hot and young actress then why not :p I am just being practical I guess....

    Anyway I still prefer True LOVE Marriage... Coz for me there is nothing you can ask if you have a HAPPY family, people say arrange marriage is boring and sad....
     
    real_skinner, Sep 16, 2009 IP
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    #6
    It depends on the arranged marriage... If you happen to like each other, then both will benefit.. but still in the end, following your heart would be the best choice.
     
    Clarisse, Sep 16, 2009 IP
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    #7
    love marriage for me.If you want marry only for money,Then you can try arrange marriage..:)
     
    Moses8595, Sep 16, 2009 IP
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    I would have to say love because I have never experienced the other but I have heard of it working but it would terrify me to know I had to marry someone I had no connection with...no chemistry......
     
    Cheryl Coldiron, Sep 16, 2009 IP
  9. alex894

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    #9
    Love marriage only.
     
    alex894, Sep 16, 2009 IP
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    #10
    love because an arranged marriage can turn out like this
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    i think love
     
    money minded, Sep 18, 2009 IP
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    #12
    No marriage here.
     
    mdvasanth86, Sep 18, 2009 IP
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    #13
    I think only a couple love each other can they live happily.
     
    lilyliu, Sep 18, 2009 IP
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    #14
    love marriag
     
    crazyclix, Sep 18, 2009 IP
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    #15
    its depend on understanding of partners if dey do have trust on each other den luv or arrange both ll succeed.
     
    Muskaan, Jan 7, 2010 IP
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    abboodeh Well-Known Member

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    #16
    it depends on how and what do you mean by arranged marriage...

    if you mean that your family recommened/helped/adviced you to marry this lady then YES this is how i got married! and nothing wrong in that

    if you meant by arranged marriage that since i was born that my parents said this little baby will be my wife then big fat NO, this is not right.


    This is my 2 cents :)
     
    abboodeh, Jan 7, 2010 IP
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    #17
    arrange or love... whichever comes first, take it :)
     
    seanboyka, Jan 7, 2010 IP
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    #18
    i'd like to ve an arranged love marriage ;)
     
    alex.ohc, Jan 7, 2010 IP
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    i would like to have arranged marriage
     
    shameem, Jan 8, 2010 IP
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    #20
    I would prefer arrange marriage because a marriage joints two family. thats why arrange marriage are preferred by me.
     
    sheva249, Jan 8, 2010 IP