Shall I find myself a girlfriend?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by bluemouse2, Feb 5, 2006.

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Shall I find myself a girlfriend?

Poll closed Feb 12, 2006.
  1. Yes, find one!

    34.7%
  2. What's wrong with you for asking stupid questions like this one?!

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  3. Love hurts, bluemouse!

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  4. Don't do it! You'll have less time for your websites!

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  1. genkied

    genkied Active Member

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    #21
    i agree with tesla if you are just looking for a girl friend just to banging around, if you feel horny just get an escort.they will give a good service.:D . but if you are looking for a serious relationship think about it and I MEAN A LOT! you might do something that will consume your time to work on your website. a good girl friend need a lot of attention and caring. good luck! :)
     
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  2. bluegill_catcher

    bluegill_catcher Active Member

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    #22
    I found one years back, we ended up getting married and having a baby. Now 15 years later I have been divorced for 6 years, I havent even had a date, or a kiss or sex in almost 6 years.

    My daughter comes by and sees me 2 or 3 days a month....... she is wonderful and I lover her a lot. I miss the wife some, but we fought and argued daily for 9 years of our marriage.

    I doubt if I will ever date again....... and like I said, it's been about 6 years since I have even had sex. If I was you I would stay away from a girlfriend, I just cannot see how any guy can enjoy all the nagging, whining and fighting constantly........

    Enjoy life, stay single and by yourself........... :)
     
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  3. MELLA

    MELLA Peon

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    #23
    Oh er. Watch out, you're dangerously close to becoming Nintendo II.

    LOL, Your opinion. Fair enough.

    But if you find love...true love, then it is not like that. If you are in a nice healthy relationship then there shouldn't be any nagging, whining or fighting. It's a partnership.

    It's nice that you have someone's back, and they have yours no matter what. Obviously it's not going to be plain sailing all the way. You'll have your ups and your downs, but the good times will by far outshine the bad.
     
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  4. Cristian Mezei

    Cristian Mezei Notable Member

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    #24
    Do you have that Mella ? I don't.
     
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  5. MELLA

    MELLA Peon

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    #25
    Yes, I love someone unconditionally. But it is not like the lovey dovey stuff out of the film 'The Notebook' etc. We have to work at it..
     
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  6. anthonycea

    anthonycea Banned

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    #26
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Got money.....Got girlfriends'ssssssss :D
     
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  7. MELLA

    MELLA Peon

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    #27
    LOL, Don't start that bull again Bob. Money is of little importance when choosing one's boyfriend unless you're a shallow golddiggin bitch.
     
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    itsme Well-Known Member

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    #28
    LOL! That is funny. :D

    but on a serious note, I can't believe all this escort talk... that's pretty sad, not so much in a pathetic way but actually sad. :(

    People, it's not good to give up hope on finding a good partner. It might not be easy but it's worth the effort. Life is good when you have a good woman by your side. The trick is not to settle, go after the qualities that really matter, kindness, honesty, trust, and desire to be together... it'll get you a LOT further in life, not to mention happier.
     
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  9. Cristian Mezei

    Cristian Mezei Notable Member

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    #29
    I can love an old friend like that. This is not true love, as you spoke before. Loving without conditions is indeed honorable and kind and beautifull, but it misses a lot.

    I did loved someone. I was and am afraid that would never come back.

    It's a start. But the true love stories don't start this way. They start in harmony.

    Hard to find, but now impossible.
     
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  10. MELLA

    MELLA Peon

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    #30
    Sorry if you understood me incorrectly, but I am in-love, head over heels etc etc. with someone. I love him unconditionally but i'm also very much inlove with him.

    It comes when you least expect it, believe me. Have some faith.. :)
     
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  11. tesla

    tesla Notable Member

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    #31
    It seems like society punishes you when you have a girlfriend or wife. I mean, I made a post here a while back saying how I paid 90 bucks last month just to feed myself and some people here were amazed.

    I can't imagine how much feeding a family would cost. I don't know about some people here, but I don't have much emotion. I don't see myself caring for a wife, girlfriend, or children.

    Plus, I don't understand the concept of having a girlfriend, breaking up with her, and then getting another girlfriend. The first woman who is my girlfriend I would want to marry.

    That isn't always the case. There are some very beautiful women who work as escorts. Some even look like they could be models. It depends on where you look and how much you choose to spend.

    Escort Price Chart

    Under 100 bucks - Expect below average looks.
    100 to 200 bucks - Average to above average quality.
    200 to 250 bucks - High quality
    250 to 300 bucks or higher - She should look like a playboy bunny. :)
    300 bucks or higher - Top of the line. Only for the high rollers.
    500 to a 1000 bucks or higher - Pornstar level beauties. Typically only millionaires or those with six figure salaries have this type of disposable income.

    When I get old I will probably be wealthy but I'm also probably going to die alone.
     
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    anthonycea Banned

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    #32
    Good partner = girl that stays home all the time, has over 10 million, let's me manage the money and............and......I am in charge....and I quit my job.......she invests money in my ideas.....and I sit at home........and....this = DreamGirl....:D
     
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  13. Cristian Mezei

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    #33
    Well say it like that girl. Good for ya' ;).
     
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    Crazy_Zap Well-Known Member

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    #34
    Take note that the guy warning you to stay away from getting a girlfriend is the same guy who hasn't gotten laid in 6 years!

    'Nuff said! :D
     
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  15. MELLA

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    #35
    the bald head speaks sense. :D
     
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  16. Cristian Mezei

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    #36
    SO ... MUhahahahahhahahaha
     
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    #37
    Looking at having a family in terms of dollars and cents is not normal. Period.

    For the sake of avoiding an argument I won't comment too much on your ability to feel emotions... I can only guess you are very young, maybe early 20's at most? No need for me to say anything on this topic, life and experience will teach you a lot more than anyone's lectures or ideas...

    This concept my friend is called life. People are (supposed to be) social animals. We learn and grow through our relationships and interactions with others.

    The whole point of having girl/boyfriends is to have fun, learn about and experience relationships... and if you're lucky you learn what you like and dislike about your partners so you can find one that is just right for you.

    Just remember: It's better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven't done.
     
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  18. _vlada_

    _vlada_ Peon

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    #38
    What is the point of making websites when you dont have anyone to show them in bed? Or on table?

    Or talk about adsense stats in a beautiful sunset? Or under shower?

    What is the point having CJ account if you dont have anyone in the whole world to so spend that money on dress you saw in a store walking under hard rain last night ALONE???
     
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    itsme Well-Known Member

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    #39
    Exactly. good post.
     
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  20. Notting

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    #40
    Where you gonna start looking then? It's not like they just turn up like spare change down the back of the sofa.

    Anyway men are rubbish at looking for things. Example: If i can't find the milk in the fridge, you can guarantee my gf will find it in under three seconds.

    So the logical outcome of this wee analysis is to wait for women to find you.


    btw you need to be in places that they actually can find you...(not in front of your computer screen with a can of beer)
     
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